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Just another random person enjoying the circus of life. It's hard to define what all of those things really matter.. with our gender and age and such.. people keep bringing up the role of hormones, how hormones effect us greatly.. and that's certainly true... but many of those hormones are shared between the two genders, the driving ones atleast are... and age... age are for those lulled to believe in stereotypes.. because age is a giant stereotype, people almost expect themselves to be wiser the older they get, more authoritan.. well to hell with that, 3 years ago I asked myself a question; why can't I act like an adult? So I started a journey of acting more mature than I really was, putting sides of myself I was displeased with on a shelf.. but I also lost my battle in the process of doing those things, mainly because maturity is matter of time, not determination.. many determined people never accomplished what they set out to accomplish, came nowhere even close... so in realizing that I began approaching it differently, I began thinking instead of acting, I began doing what I wanted to do, instead of what I thought I should do and ended up somewhere half-way of where I wanted to be, mainly because I realized the place I wanted to be wasn't the place I should be.. adulthood bears no maturity, it's another way of stating that there's a "normal" conluding stage in our evolution as human beings, which to me there isn't, you can't just call everyone over 18 adults, as they far from are.. or every "responsible" person, because that doesn't hold any truth.. if you state that, you state that there's a right and a wrong, and without assuming anything here, there really isn't an either of those two.. it's about perception, that's my conclusion, individual perception... one thing is true to some, and wrong to others, but no matter how convicted they are in their own views on the matter, neither are more right or wrong than the others are.
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